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Key #2. Success is remembered

All to often we are quick to forget our success, and to fast to remember our failures. We tend to think only in what did not happen, and not what did happen.

You hear it all the time, people telling you about an event or function a job or anything else, and they will tell you where they failed. Failure is part of success, we need to fail to grow and to succeed, and any one who tells you they never fail, is a liar!

I have started many small companies, and non as-of-yet are what the world would call a “success”. But to me, they all where. Maybe not in the money side of things… but they toughed me more then any school ever could on how a company works (or in my case don’t work). To me they have made me a better person! To me they were SUCCESSFUL….

You need to look at everything you do as one way to make you a better person, to learn from it and move on, do not carry with you the “should haves” and “could haves” leave them behind, and only bring forward the “I learned” “I did” and other positives.

In your life their can be no room for failures, only success!

Yes, not every thing will turn out the way you want it to, but that don’t make it a failure unless you want it to be. Make it what it really is a SUCCESS!

Start today, look back on what potential success you have over looked, write them down and post them around you, to help you Remember Success!

Paul

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The next few postings will be breaking down the 10 Keys to success, this is the first: 

Key #1:  Go Past

It happened, learn from it, and move on

This is the first step for a reason, it’s the key to all of the others. We need to learn to let go of the past. We all have had bad things happen to us, yes some greater then others, but all where bad.

If we can not let the past be the past, then how do we plan of going forward? It’s a paradox we all have to deal with. We have to GO PAST the past, to move forward.

The past is like an anchor, it keeps us grounded in what was, and will not allow us to move to what is and what will be. For example, someone, in the past, may have taken money from us, or may have hurt our feelings by speaking badly of us. Yes both accounts are wrong, and yes the people involved should pay for the harm, either by returning the money, or taking back the false statements. But they should not have to pay for the same sin for years to come.

We need to learn to let go and forgive and to GO PAST the past. If we hold the grudge over this person, in the end we are the only-ones who suffer. Resentment, and hatred are both very heavy emotions to hang on to.

Have you ever seen a happy person who is resentful or full of hatred?

NO!

And you never will. The two emotions can not share the same spot in our life. We can not be a happy hateful person.

We need to GO PAST the even, to move on with our life, to bring ourselves back in to the light, the light of goodness, kindness and forgiveness. We need to reconnect to God, who does not understand hatred and resentment, he only understand forgiveness and love.

the ego (Edging God Out) needs to be left out of your life, your ego will and does keep you from forgiveness, and keeps you from GOing PAST the past, because the ego was harmed, bruised and it has a long memory. Remember that the ego (Edging God Out) is not concerned in your healing, but rather it is interested only-in it’s feelings. Nothing else matters! Remove the ego, and you will learn to GO PAST.

So start today, and pick one person you are resentful toward, and offer them your forgiveness, it matters not, if they except it… it only matters that you offered it.

Key 1 GO PAST is the key to all others, open your heart mind and soul and let this key set you free.

Paul

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Ten steps to a better you… Well at least a start to a better you… Read and enjoy the road you are on…

The key to success is change, we all must change and grow, never becoming static on our path to a better life. 

1. Go Past

It happened, learn from it, and move on


2. Success is remembered

We all to often only remember what went wrong, also remember what went right

3. Realize it to being

You can do what ever you want, you just have to start

4. Big Dreamer

Dream big, and go for it..

5. Thinking Change

You must change the way you think… No matter what oyur actions are, if your thought is the same old defeating thought, you will not change… Think yourself new…

6. A Daily Habit Starts Today

They say it takes 28 days to form a habbit, make this day one… Pick one new healthy habbit to start today

7. A Team Sport

Find support, friends, family, Church or Community. We are people who need others to help us along our way
 

8. Get Excited

You must want what you are doing, you need to see it, and be excited about it

9. Higher Standards

You will only achive what your standards will allow, so set them high, and reach for them daily…

10. Enjoy Life

If it’s not fun, it’s not worth it. Yes it  may be hard work, but it still can be fun. See the challange and see the fun!

Paul

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