Posts Tagged ‘transform’

Trust is probably one of the most important words… It’s a word we use to define a person, it’s used to help us navigate life and trust is used to give value to things.


We use the word trust a lot, and often we say it with out really thinking about it or with out any real meaning, we just trust that the person we are speaking to understands us.


That’s the thing about trust, we give it so freely, and we offer it with out condition. Trust is a gift that we keep on giving, even when we know it’s not deserved. We trust in the other, we hope for the best, and sometimes our trust is broken.


We place our trust is people, institutions such as the government or the church we even place our trust in objects such as guns or computers, but all to often we fail to place our trust in ourselves.


We are too quick to trust someone unknown to us, and not trust in self, we defend the unknown but fail to defend ourselves, and we allow our own insecurities get in the way. We all too often break our own trust, we allow ourselves to underachieve to see ourselves as not worthy of our own trust.


Stop to take the time to re-evaluate how and who you trust, compare the attributes of each, are our trust equally given, do the circumstances change how we give our trust, do we give it to freely or do we keep it all and give it to no one, including ourselves. To we allow the gift to be squandered or horded?


Look at the criteria you use, do you allow the same criteria to define trust for yourself as you do for others?


The gift of trust should be given freely, but it should also have attached to it a very high standard, and that standard should be common for you and for all others. (For the most part, there are always exceptions to the rule)


I trust that you will take to heart what is written here, and I trust that it will transform you… It is the same trust I place in myself, and the same trust I offer to others…



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Create the world you dream of lining in… We hear this all to often as a quick fix selling point to numerous talks and workshops, along with things like change your life in 30 seconds, or a better you in 10 days.


They all sound good and most really sound to good to be true, and they most likely are. Nothing happens over night, you did not become who you are over night, it took years of growing, positive or negative growth, but either way it was growing in some fashion.


Most of us probably bit a little bit of both, we grew positive and negative at the same time, the question is, what did we do the most? If we where equal in the negative and positive, then we would have experienced no growth, and I really don’t think that happens, ever, I think there is always a dominate one, one value that will be a tad bit stronger then the other, one condition that overrides the other.


Now the true question is what one governs your life, the positive or the negative? Are you ½ full or ½ empty, do you see everything as bad or as a good?


This question truly can transform your life, how you respond to everyday events, large or small will determine how you see you’re over all life. Do you see everything as a negative, if so, your life will always be a step back, or do you se life as a positive, a step forward?


In truth both will always exist in your life, there always times of darkness, times of negitiveness, but what is the overall condition, what do you allow in to your world the most?


By changing your view of event and action in your life, you will change your life, by seeing the positiveness in life; you will create positive responses and actions.


It’s a slow process, like any change, it takes time, and hard work, but it is a response you can train in yourself, a reaction that you can practice. You need to feel the positiveness in your being; you need to feel the growth in your soul. You need to own the energy that flows from the action of postiveness.


Look at life from fresh prospective, see things in a new light, and know that your actions play a direct roll in the outcome of the overall event. The outcome may be the same, but the reaction and growth will be a step in the right direction.


Creating the world you dream of does not mean the world will all go your way, but rather it allows you to live in the world and be effected by and effect the world in a positive way that allows not only you the ability to grow, but also offers that same ability to others that where effected by your reaction to the action.


Change is hard, it is a slow process, one that takes a lot of work, but the process is invigorating and can lead to great strides in your personal growth, but only if you see it in that light, only if you allow the positivenss of it to shape you and consume you.


Start today, and watch yourself being transformed in to the person you dream of being, living in the world you have created.



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